New Light on Decisions

Every decision I make is the perfect one because I am doing what is best for me at the time.

There have been times, hindsight being 20/20 of course, I regret the decisions I have made. Many times making decisions is overwhelming to me. I want to make the right decision but do not trust that what I am doing is right. In this taxing state, I just wanted to throw the decision making onto someone else to relieve anxiety. And, of course, someone knows better than me right? My parents, my husband (when I was married), my friends, or extended family.

Older and wiser, I see decision making differently. I see that when a person has confidence and courage, they make decisions from a place of strength.  But, when a person is feeling helpless or lost, the decision comes from a place of instability.

Neither one is wrong. Decisions made from either place provides what you are needing at the time.  Our soul is constantly guiding us either in a place of instability or a place of strength.  When we feel lost, we are being directed to a place of stability.  In a state of confidence, we can venture into decisions that expand us into areas of the unknown.

All my decisions are from a powerful place and are guided by what my soul needs at the time.  So, I ask myself, “What do I need? What does my soul need?What is calling to me? What is best for me right now?”

The answer will always come up, empowered by the fact that you are doing your best with what you have now. xo




The Complaining Stops Here

Should I write this morning about my predominant thoughts? The things that are driving me crazy? Or should I lay down this rainbow and unicorn blog about how to live life?

I know that when I focus on shit that bothers me,  it isn’t doing me any good. Complaining isn’t solving anything or bringing a resolution to what is going on.  In fact, nothing needs to be fixed except my perception of what is.

Here is what it is. I am surrounded by people that are complaining about every little thing-nothing is ever right. The kicker is when they find a resolution to their “major” issue, immediately the next issue comes up to focus on.

Ok, what the fuck is going on here?  These complainers are teachers in my life. The triggers are things that I dislike in myself. Am I complaining?  Not exactly like the people around me, but when reflected upon, yes, I am.  Not to people around me, but in my mind and the story that I am creating which is being projected out in the universe.

I can’t change the world outside of me but, I can change the world inside of me.  I want to attract powerful,positive, upbeat people into my life.  I want people with unlimited visions and who live on rainbow clouds of love.  I want to lead a life of fun, laughter and adventure. Only light energy of love is allowed in my life.

Be the person you want to attract into your life.  xo

Building an Empire

Over here building my empire


From the Dairy of a Spiritual Warrior

I always wanted to build something amazing in my life. A company or a business, a place where I could be my own boss, creating stuff, helping people, calling the shots, being respected, being innovative, having flexibility and tons of fun. A place where people could come to work in bunny ears, play cards, take a half days’ vacation, have a glass of wine at noon.  We all worked hard but there was lots of fun and games too.  Am I serious? F-yah. Why not?

Recently, I had one of my “aha” moments, realizing that my life was the empire. 

From that, I was inspired with the following post. Enjoy. Continue reading