Asking for a Partner

Everything I ask for seems to magically appear. But, when its not in the form that I think it should come in, I block it fully coming to fruition with my resistance to what is.

I think, for the most part, this is most people’s problem with manifesting your desires. Things come to you but when its not the way we think they should be, all sorts of ideas and thoughts to it come up in our minds.

This just happened to me. I really desire a guy to do things with. To have fun with, travel with, go on adventures with.  And, one appeared but, it wasn’t the one that I really want because the one that I want is unavailable to me in that way.

So the path of least resistance is the one Abraham says to take.  And, for me, this would be like saying and thinking, “Oh, this showed up?  I guess I will take a hold of it and see what happens.”  I keep remembering being with this guy is easy-conversations are intriguing, he makes me think deep. He is open to trying new things and thinking in new ways. Qualities that are rare in guys my age (or most ages–lol).

I remember holding on in my marriage. Did I think Jim would turn into this prince charming, devoting his undying love for me and telling me that I was the most amazing woman in the world and that he would do anything for me?  I think he loved me in his own way but I never felt it. I never felt special.

I want to feel special to someone.  I want to be the center of someones world. I want to travel and have fun and find new things.  So, there are my desires.  Now, I am going to sit back and see what shows up. xoxoxo

Getting Ready to be Ready

You know those inspirational things you read something like-“Joy and happiness first then you will receive what you desire”.

I was listening to this Abraham Hicks thingy that my bestie Amanda sent me. It was awesome in that it states, as I often believe but often forget, “complaining causes a block in you desires.” Here we are creating problems that don’t exist.

I want to be in a state of allowing–allowing love, money, good times, adventures, trips with my bestie, good times with friends, being with my family.

It all starts with me. Me tapping into the love, joy and happiness in my heart. It is about me focusing on all the amazing kick ass stuff in my life. It is me not complaining about stupid stuff that really doesn’t matter or being afraid of stuff that probably won’t happen anyway.

I have so much good going on in my life right now.  I am freakin happy for every single thing.  I am getting ready to be ready. Today there is joy, happiness, abundance, good times, dance parties, cartwheels and rainbows.

Today is the best day ever!  I am open to allowing and receiving all that my heart desires.

Manifesting a New Car

Last week, I got together with my friend Michelle and we talked about the “What If” game. Its a method to use for manifesting what you desire.

A lot of times, what I want seems so out of reach, thinking that I need certain things to be in place before they come to me. For instance, I need to make more money to buy a car or go to Italy.  Or, that the way to get what I desire should come in a certain way.

The “What If” game opens your mind to unlimited possibilities, so in my writing today, I am going to play “What If”.

I desire a new car.  At the same time, I don’t want car payments. Well, thats negating my desire, I guess it will never come. To make things more clear, what I truly desire is a new car with no car payments. How can that happen?

What if-

  • Someone gave me a car?
  • I won a car in a contest?
  • I won the lottery and could purchase a car with cash?
  • I got  job where I had a company car?
  • I started dating someone who had an extra car so they let me use it?

But, are cars really a good investment?  Not really.  I just went and looked at my car. My car is cool. I love my car. It has good mileage and only 132,000, I could drive it for another 5 years.

What if I saved the money over the next 5 years and bought a new car outright? I have always wanted to do this.

What if I started saving the money then one of the above bulleted items came through because the Universe saw I was serious about getting a new car?

And, what if it didn’t take 5 years to save the money, it arrived sooner than I thought.

Today, I will start paying for my new car. I will start looking for the car I want. I will test drive and price them out.  No matter what comes up, I won’t say, I will hold off because the decision is made-I am gettng a new car.

The decision is made!